My last post, “500 bucks richer for a poor person“ is related to this post, except that this post is a more positive version of the subject! (On a side note, thanks to Autumn for her comment requesting more positive entries. Though it is my aim to promote positivity, sometimes I go about addressing positivity by deliberating on how I can handle less positive interactions. Thank you Autumn for the reminder that all things are good–in balance. So, on with the positive!)
Yesterday, I was picking up some items at the mall conversing (as always) with the sales ladies about random things. One of the women told me of a day when she found a wallet in a parking lot with a moderate amount of money in it. She Facebooked the guy and arranged to return it to him, she told me. I was so impressed–and encouraged, especially after the $500 woman last week! I asked the sales lady then if the man had given her a reward or anything. She said “No, but he was a student and I bet he didn’t have much to spare. — But the next week I was on campus and I found a 100 dollar bill on the ground! I thought to myself–this is what good deeds get you!” I have to say, I totally agree! Wouldn’t it be great if that happened to all of us! 🙂
Have you ever been so focused on what you’re going to do next that you don’t pay attention to what you’re doing at that moment? My friend had gone grocery shopping one afternoon this summer and returned all the way home with her thoughts on the tasks awaiting her there when she realized she had left her purse in the cart in the parking lot! In a panic she flew back to the supermarket, all-the-while thinking of what she had in her purse that could be stolen or misused. She quickly walked to the customer service desk, anxiety growing in her mind. She budged in line (I imagine this was a pretty justifiable budge!) to ask after her purse and there it was, everything in tact! She asked who had left it, but the worker said the woman had not left her information. Thrilled, relieved, and grateful, my friend walked slowly back to her car wondering how she would ever thank the person for their kind deed. That evening, she placed an ad in the local paper, saying simply, “To the kind woman who found my purse and returned it, thank you!” What I love about this story is that not only did someone do the right, kind thing, but my friend went out of her way to thank them for it, even when she did not know who it was! Kind deeds become a little more special with a hardy “thank you!”
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